In marriage, most men want a wife who will be their best lover while most women desire a husband who will be their best friend. The secret to a marriage that thrives is in learning to combine both of these elements in a harmonious balance. Unlike most marriage enrichment books which focus outward on life modification or behavioral changes, Best Friends Best Lovers looks inward to the real key to a happy marriage and finding satisfaction in love: heart transformation. It is only when our hearts are transformed from within by embracing the incredible love of God for us that we can enter into a marital relationship as full and rich and satisfying as we have always dreamed-a relationship characterized by complete abandonment to each other in self-giving love.